She could appear to be the nicest woman outside of work but not so when in the role of my boss.  And yes I’ve had had many bosses I’ve liked, men and woman.  This installment is not just about me simply venting, although that’s probably a part of it. 

The truth of the matter is that one of the themes of this blog is becoming empowered.  And, the more I think about it, this post definitely involves just that – especially, at this time, when looking ahead to 2009.

This example will illustrate how in my opinion you have to be in any job you do. 

Let me explain.

Needless to say I did not enjoy working for this woman.  Her negativity was a great motivation for me to go out looking for new work.  I found a much better paying job with better pay, benefits and training.   

Anyways I faired quite well in the end because I moved on a got a better job elsewhere.

What’s the point?

The crappy job caused me to look at other options. (A friend of my parents who worked well into his 70s and made a great living maintained that people should typically never settle in a certain job at any time – the antenna should always be out  – I always agreed with this statement)

But there’s more…

Now it might have been that I was really passionate about the banking industry and would have put up with the torture from this woman and the extreme criticisms might have caused me to improve my skills and knowledge… However I was honest with myself and asked the question: Is this the industry one I really want to be in?

It was not.

So I moved on.

However, the point I’m making is don’t be afraid to trust your own inner guidance when it comes to your passion.  I hated the work on so many levels and because I was honest with myself and took the appropriate action to correct for this I found a better job.

Everyone needs to be honest and evaluate where they are currently and where they’d like to go.  Never settle.  Move on.  Do not be afraid to leave a position.  Best wishes for 2009.

It’s time for someone with hootspa to run for prime minister
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However we needn’t stress ourselves over things we see in the media when we can do nothing about them.

Election time, like anything in life, is a time of much passion for many people.  It’s also a time of intense stress for many.  As is the case with any stressful event, people can benefit from learning to let go of things outside of their control.

The bottom line is that once you’ve done all you can do,  you need to stop stressing yourself further.  As simple as this sounds, I think it’s something we all need to hear from time to time, especially those of us stressed out by elections.

Tom Thomson was a member of the famous Canadian group of 7 artists which came to be known as the Group of Seven.  Their art is great.  It represents many aspects of the outdoors of Canada.

I have always been drawn to Thomson’s art.  I just came across a newspaper article with handwriting on it indicating it dates back to January 1971.  This appears accurate as the article is talking about Judge William Little’s new book on the Thomson which was published in 1970: The Tom Thomson Mystery.

It’s neat how we are drawn to certain things. It’s neat how we find things throughout our life about topics of interest.  I actually found this article just the other day.  I’d never seen it before, but I own and have read books on Tom Thomson.

After looking at all the facts I have come to the opinion that he’s been murdered.  I’ve thought about the abilities of forensic science but I don’t think we’ll ever know for sure.

What I really enjoyed about Thomson’s qualities was that he was an introspective, peaceful, outdoorsman who enjoyed painting the outdoors, which for him was Canada’s.  I have some of his artwork in my home.

If you’re interested in finding out more about him or the Group of Seven then I’d recommend checking out Amazon and doing a search on Tom Thomson or checking it out at your local library.

Anyone interested in this topic feel free to post a comment to the blog, just to say you are, of if you’ve got some suggestions as to how this mystery could be investigated, please post it to the blog.

Maybe you possess the same qualities of these people, maybe it seems you don’t. But the point is: it’s not about these qualities.

As stated, I have the pleasure of working with the above mentioned persons. I can tell you that some of these people seemingly don’t have common sense about the basis tasks of completing paperwork. Some of them when attempting to make a decision can’t do so. They continue to contact everyone they can think of and attempt to pass the burden of making the decision to someone else (if that person accepts it). Probably so they can then turn around later, if critized, and state: “that person told me to”; “I trusted that person’s judgment”, etc.

However because of their high IQ and education, even when they demonstrate deficiencies, they do not appear to present the same picture of incompetence.

I could go on about these people but, as I said, this post isn’t really about them.

The real point here is the contrast I’m going to make and its implications.

The people with high IQ and education do not usually expect themselves to be completely proficient in all areas. HOWEVER the people with seemingly low IQ, little education or some other perceived impairment do. They seem to have an underlying need to belittle themselves about the tasks in which they don’t appear to have the necessary competence to complete.

We all have deficiencies. Let me repeat: we all have deficiencies.

All of the above mentioned persons do. We’re human.  It doesn’t mean we’re overall incompetent though.

Most importantly though: If the people who belittle themselves about possible deficiencies stopped doing so, were true to themselves, and did what they were good at, they’d move past this belittling process.

Now this is definitely easier said than done; however, those who do move past the belittling process move forward to be the great people of our world. I’m not saying they are necessarily receiving special recognition from others. BUT they know from within that they are not in fact incompetent or impaired and they are living the live they wish and doing the things they are good at.

We are all good at doing certain things; some things receive greater recognition from others; however, the people who really “get it” and follow their own guidance about how to live their life instead of belittling themselves about deficiencies have something much greater than any IQ, education, or any other external recognition will provide.

The cost to taxpayers for early elections surely this exorbitant.

I think our friends in the south have got it right when it comes to setting an election every 4 years. You know when it’s going to happen and can be prepared for it.

In a true democracy the ability to allow any party to trigger an election to its advantage should not exist. A party forcing an election because of favourable polls is ridiculous. Moreover, snap elections do not necessarily allow all parties to adequately prepare in time. Certainly doesn’t sound democratic.

Again having a set time for the election every four years would solve the problem.

Some will argue this ability is a safeguard for a really bad government or one that can’t get anything passed because the other parties will not allow it. Well maybe, and this is a real big maybe, a clause allowing an early election to be called in exceptional circumstances might be okay. Even then though this leaves it up to interpretation.

In the end, I’d like to know when this law has actually – not hypothetically – benefited Canadians rather than merely draining their pockets?

Certainly it’s good that the world has had more of a glimpse of China now.

Many people see things they didn’t like.

Certainly the level of violence was disturbing. Then there was the story of the child singer who was replaced by a cuter child who lip synced the performance – in the interest of china’s national image – well of course. Then there is an investigation into allegations of 14 year olds participating in the Olympics. There’s the pollution. There’s the human rights issues.

I could go on. Like I said though the world had a chance to see more of China. Many people we’re just plain stupid though. For instance, the people caught carrying something like three hundred bibles on their person when they probably knew that it was illegal. In China, one can only possess enough religious material for personal use.

These people were reportedly staying in the airport in China waiting for their bibles to be returned – which Chinese officials had confiscated. Well come on people, did you not know this was prohibited? I say “When in Rome…” You know the rest. If you knew it was illegal to bring the materials in, then why did you do it? To make a stand? Well there is a time and place.

However there certainly are legitimate concerns. We need to look in our own backyard though. I think we should all look at the things in China and realize that many of the human rights issues and pollution are being contributed by the Western world continuing to buy in such large quantities from China.

I’m not saying the Western world is the cause. I’m not saying I have the answers. However, the next time you go into the dollar store, or the next time you buy something made in China (these things are literally everywhere), realize that there is a price to pay for having cheaper goods come from China: human rights and pollution.

Because people are paid lower wages and, until recently there wasn’t much in the way of legislation preventing people from working long 12+ hour shifts, we paid a cheaper price but those employees paid a price too. The environment paid a price too. Look at the pollution.

Again I don’t have all the answers but I like to think, at least today, that the answer might begin with us all looking to our consciences.

Some advice: You live in a democracy, you should always exercise your right to vote. This is an area where we each have an equal playing field.

If you have issues with how things are going in the world (and anyone does unless they live in a bubble), then your only hope is to vote.

People who give up and say there’s no point in voting, it doesn’t make a difference, are forfeiting the only hope they have. Period.

It’s guaranteed that when people don’t vote (or even more absurdly spoil their ballot) they prove nothing. The people who want things in the country to remain a certain way, or the people with the power will have their interests represented in voting. That’s guaranteed.